at the wedding




In youth it was a way I had

To do my best to please.

To change with every passing lad

To suit his theories.

But now I know the things I know

And do the things I do.

And if you do not like me so,

To hell, my love, with you. – Anonymous


A poem given to me by my mother when I was in my teens.


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monday the 20th






I walk past her house and think of the widow

who died two or three times and wakes in the night

with salt on her lips and sand in her sheets,

God and girlfriend vacant when she cries.


I shudder with a fear of the ocean,

and a love that runs just as deep

till watery death.


A personal note:  my thanks to all who have commented on my blog and apologies that I have not replied.  I continue to feel my way around wordpress and will return shortly.


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David to Claire: (subject) Unexpected

From the first, she had touched him in ways that few women (and there had been many) had. Though they had never met, a chord had been struck that vibrated harmoniously and he was ever aware of her. There was a spoken yet unspoken understanding of shared tastes and fantasies, unexplored territories. Sometimes he wanted her so badly it was like a physical ache. He spent hours almost every day imagining their time together, their mutual explorations of each other, the anticipated pain and pleasures, the fantasies, the delicate boundaries they would push. It was like an ever-pulsing engine that was in him. Yet, despite the crazy lust he had for her, he felt a soft desire, and was in no particular rush to their first encounter, content to let it build, perhaps to an even greater need. xx d


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from the story within by laura oliver




“Write because you are a witness, not just to events, but to what mattered about those events. Not just to relationships, but to how those relationships exposed or celebrated a truth. Write because you are an explorer of yourself and of the human condition. Write to cherish what will otherwise be lost and to understand what has never made sense. The more personal your discovery, the more universal it is.” – Laura Oliver

along with heart, a compass for writers

the story within / new insights and inspiration for writers / laura oliver


from the near transformation of claire




Language is a skin. I rub my language against the other.  It is as if I had words instead of fingers, or fingers at the tip of my words.  My language trembles with desire. – Roland Barthes

I am addicted to you.  You arouse me higher than I can remember.  I will have you, and have you, and chafe myself raw in you. My ear is already tuned to your cries and whispers as I mount you.  You are my virgin. – David Ambrose

The near Transformation of Claire will be available as an e reader, summer 2015.


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in flight


“What do you do?” he asked her.

What do I do, she thought. Geez, I don’t know, I don’t know what I do. Stupid stuff, I play online card games, I watch bad tv, I check my emails a hundred times a day and I don’t know why, it’s not like anything important is going to show up.  I go to meetings.  I miss my children, but they’re older now and not so much fun.  They just like to tell me how to do things.  Hah, as if!  I miss my dog, I clean house a lot, I smoke too much, I read poetry, I really love poetry.  I garden but it hurts my back.  I spend way too much time in front of the mirror.  I fantasize, I think about him.

She assumed he meant, “What do you do for a living?”

“I work the customer service desk in a print shop,” she replied.

He chuckled a bit. “That sounds like a big headache.”

“Oh, it can be,” she replied and turned away ever so slightly and opened her second bag of pretzels.


angel by dyane fancey





for bill wernick


Every woman wants her own, you know,

and every king, god, and pasha

too gouty, sweaty, or lecherous

makes the same mistake courting.

Sending the favorite boy as envoy

and the maiden sees the smooth, the sleek,

the beautiful young body and the gentle mouth

and at first sight seizes that as her bargain.

Sometimes her heart and loins lock absolutely

like Isolde’s

and the old king’s key can never open

the knot of flesh

and the eyes never close that follow

the handsome nephew.

Every woman wants her heart’s own,

even Mary of Nazareth, that pious child

consumed under the wind and thunder

listened for the rustle of wings

crying like a prayer,

“Gabriel, Gabriel!” – Dyane Fancey, A Religion of Skin


From the back cover of A Religion of Skin:

“I was a poet for lust.

I write because I don’t do anything else as well, except lie, booze, etc…

I need some justification for my otherwise lascivious and licentious life, and the world always forgives if one makes art.”

Thank you for this, Dyane, and for more than you know.


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himalaya – seaside heights, nj, 1965




Their provisions included seagrams and coke and lip gloss,

Their clothing not at all appropriate for the trek across stone

And sand and glass and beach litter,

The road to the mountain full of teenage anticipation and expectation

The promise of nothing and everything.


They could see it from miles away,

Magnificent metal rising from surf

Chaotic colors screaming sex and summer,

Look at me, Look at me, I could be your girl!

They stood at the base and watched the machine,

Sweat and cigarettes and a little more seagrams

Then bravely into the belly, secured by all means of hooks and bars

And men with muscles, forward, reverse, faster, faster,

Do you want to go faster?

Yessssssssss, fasterrrrrrrr.


They danced in the neon sea, starlets on the boardwalk stage

Playing the part they rehearsed every day.

Drunk and daring, moonstruck and oh so terribly hopeful,

Everyone drawn to that magic mountain,

The Himalay-ya-ya-ya-ya.


A nod to my birthplace and the most iconic teenage classroom and playground of all time,  the Jersey shore.


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pink cadillac




Well, they tempt you, man, with silver

And they tempt you, sir, with gold

And they tempt you with the pleasures

The flesh does surely hold

They say Eve tempted Adam with an apple

Man, I ain’t goin’ for that

I know it was her pink Cadillac.

Crushed velvet seats

Ridin’ in the back, cruising down the street

Waving to the girls, peelin’ out of sight

Spending all my money on a Saturday night

Honey, I just wonder what you’re doin’

In the back of your pink Cadillac,

Pink Cadillac, pink Cadillac. – Bruce Springsteen, with a few changes ‘casue that’s how I like to sing it.


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